couples

Many people aren't sure what to expect when they come in for couples counseling the first time. Will it be uncomfortable? Embarrassing? Will the counselor take sides? Will I have to talk about things I don't want to?

Many people tell me after two or three sessions, that they actually enjoy coming in. The sessions include talking, listening, learning about communication, relationship types, personality types, exploring what goals you, as the client, want to work toward.

During the first session, both partners come in together and we will decide the methods to take. Some couples want to see me by themselves for 1 or 2 sessions, and then meet together as a couple after that. Some couples choose to only see me together from the start. Together we will decide what is best for you and your relationship.

My job, as the counselor, is not to take the side of either partner. I take the side of the relationship. I also make sure that each partner feels "heard" and understood by both their partner and me.

I look forward to meeting you and hopefully we'll have the chance to work together to improve your relationship...where ever you are at this moment, it can always get better.

I offer a free 1/2 hour consulation, either by phone or in my office. This way we can meet before we decide if we want to work together.

Call my office to make an appointment at ~ 916-780-1144. ~ or e-mail me at

~ Lorraineellis@surewest.net ~